Regular, Not Boyfriend: How to Become an Escort’s Favourite Client

Why Being a Regular Beats Playing the “Boyfriend”? Most escorts aren’t looking for another boyfriend. They’re looking for solid, respectful regulars who are easy to deal with and fun in bed.

A favourite client is the guy who books properly, shows up on time, smells good, pays without fuss, communicates clearly and doesn’t bring emotional chaos to the door. He knows the dynamic. He doesn’t push for discounts, freebies or a secret relationship on the side.

You don’t have to guess how to do this completely blind. If you’re still new to the game, start with the basics in our guide on first-time jitters so your first few bookings already hit a higher standard than most men she sees.

Nail the Booking Before You Even Meet

Being her favourite starts before the door opens.

Book with clear details: date, time, length, city, incall or outcall, and the kind of experience you’re after. “Hey” and nothing else is amateur hour. If you’ve read up on GFE and know you want something soft and intimate, say that. If you’re leaning towards a wilder fantasy session, mention that too.

Confirm the rate, respect the deposit if required, and don’t haggle. Professionals remember the guys who try to bargain them down – and not in a good way.

If you’re chasing specific extras, ask in advance and accept the answer like an adult. Don’t try to negotiate at the door or mid-session. Nothing kills the vibe faster than arguing when you should be kissing.

And finally: show up on time. Running a bit late? Let her know as early as possible. Reliability is one of the biggest “favourite client” markers.

How to Act in the Room (Especially the First 10 Minutes)

The first ten minutes set the tone for the entire booking.

Walk in clean, freshly showered, with decent breath and subtle scent. You don’t need to be in a suit, but looking like you actually tried goes a long way. Say hi, make eye contact, give her the envelope or complete payment straight away so it’s out of the way.

Relax. Have a quick chat. Let her lead the pace if you’re nervous, or gently tell her what kind of energy you’re in the mood for: slow and sensual, playful and chatty, or straight into something more intense. If you’re into fantasy or roleplay, remind her of the scenario you discussed so she can slide into character.

In bed, focus on chemistry, not performance. Listen to her body, pay attention when she guides you, and don’t treat the booking like you’re recreating a porn scene frame by frame. Favourite clients are present, generous lovers who still understand it’s a paid dynamic, not a romance movie.

What Escorts Actually Notice Over Time

Escorts remember patterns, not one-offs.

They notice the regular who always confirms neatly, arrives on time, is respectful, tips now and then when he can, and never makes things awkward. They remember the guy who asks about their boundaries and then actually sticks to them.

They also notice the man who books thoughtfully: longer sessions when he wants proper connection, overnights when he wants to really unwind, or occasional doubles when he’s in the mood to go big and play.

You don’t need to spend the most money to stand out – although booking quality time helps. What matters is consistent, low-drama behaviour. The more she trusts you’ll be a good booking, the more relaxed and genuine she can be with you. That’s exactly how you slide into “favourite” territory.

How to Stay Regular Without Slipping into Boyfriend Mode

The line between “favourite client” and “fake boyfriend” is crossed outside the booking, not inside it.

Favourite clients:

• Text to book, not to small-talk every day.
• Don’t get jealous about other clients or her schedule.
• Don’t fish for real-life details she doesn’t volunteer.
• Don’t demand free emotional labour between bookings.

If you need to stay under the radar because of work, family or social circles, follow the advice in our discretion guide. Keeping your own life tidy makes you safer to see and easier to prioritise.

Treat her like a professional you respect and a woman you desire at the same time. That balance – respect plus raw attraction – is exactly what makes an escort quietly put a star next to your name.

Ready to Become the Regular She Looks Forward To?

If you want to be more than “just another booking” and become the regular she’s actually excited to open the door for, it starts with who you choose and how you book.

Browse our models and pick the woman whose vibe genuinely suits you, not just who looks hottest for one night. Check our services to decide whether you’re more of a GFE regular, fantasy player or doubles kind of man.

When you’re ready to step up your game, send a clear, respectful enquiry via the contact page with your city, preferred time, length and the style of booking you want. Start acting like the switched-on, low-drama client from the very first message – and you’ll be surprised how quickly you move into favourite territory.